Any problem with this relationship?

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Hey all. I am new here and thought I might post one question that i had in my mind for the past 2 months and hear what you have to say. so here is go…
I just wanted to know if there is or will be a problem marrying a man who is 12 years older than you?
I mean what if the person is sweet/loving and he doesn’t look much older compared to his age.

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why u wana marry such an old man, share the inside story ?

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Lol...it's not for me..I just wanted to hear others opinion :)

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if you like the very mature kind who would 'own' you (as some people put it) - then why not.

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aww sho sweet pakwoman,,,what a mature answer :)

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12 years older? it's a good age gap i guess.

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k what is that guy looks more like 25 or 26ish, more like younger than his age. Is a very and kind man and is way too hot for a girl to handle, so what could be done Lol?

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Do it.......

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all of such relations taht i have seen turn out to be very good .. its just today's mentality where people feel it awkward or whatever .. but in fact it turns out to be sweet .. thats what i have seen in real life .. .. the guy acts as mature and handles the serious side of the life .. on the other hand the girl keeps adding the charm into the life .. .. and the chemistry stll remain alive even when the guy turns 40

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what are you waiting for than woman?!! :eek: if the rest of your marriage concerns have been sorted out than go for it! :biggthumb:

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:) :)

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I too want a mature guy, like more than five yrs age gap. I am too old for these 30-32 :-S

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as long as the two love each other it shouldn’t be a problem. What creeps me out is how did the 12 year older guy go for the girl in the first place? :eek:

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I wud say no if u have better options than him, my husband is 10 years older than me and Im pretty much happy with my married life but sometimes I find him very boring, so i think my life wud be more easier if i wud got married to same age person.

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i don't see anything wrong with it at all, older men are probably more chilled out and have experienced most everything, if they ain't the bossy, stubborn type(which have nothing to do with age). hopefully more mature(which has nothing to do with age either but still) and financially stable.

isn't that totally perfect

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Lol true say :)

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Lol.. its his cuzn :slight_smile:

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Don't you think such huge age gaps are harmful to the element of fun and adventure in a relationship? I've just always thought similar ages (3-4 years gap at most) might make you more compatible, at least mentally. 12 years is like the guy is from a totally different generation. Don't get me wrong I have nothing against age gaps (my mum and dad had a 9 year difference). Just wondering.

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okay, that’s even creepier. So he probably saw her when she was a little kid, chances are she even played in his lap :eek:

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lol nahhh