Re: any idea whats going on
You’re making it sound like you’ve invested a lot of feelings into this rishta, when you probably haven’t. It’s not worth it IMO. You shouldn’t just marry a guy because he’s willing to accept that you’ll have loans and further degrees. Granted, it seems like some guys don’t want to marry girls with higher education. But it doesn’t mean that you marry the first guy who is accepting of it.
Plus… what uncle E-MAILS his son’s rishta (not even confirmed future DIL yet) about his son and romance. He sounds way too out there. That’s something that he should communicate with your parents.