any idea whats going on

[Iyla]

Re: any idea whats going on

@soconfused

so updates:

the dad got a hold of my email address (I’m assuming from the boy’s brother) and has been emailing me. Which was fine when it was just to clear up the misunderstanding (and even then I was very clear about how they need to talk the adults) but then it became daily emails. He asked me what he could do to open the communication bw parents and I told him that they need to tlak to my parents.

Yesterday I completely lost it because he mentioned something about how me and the guy overanlyze everything to death and there’s no discussion of the small nuances of life like music, poetry, romance…ERRR Iono I just thought that was so inappropriate to discuss with a girl that you never talk to when you saw her and who could be your daughter in law? I really don’t understand what the heck they’re doing. And then he mentioned some plan for a wedding somewhat soon so I could spend time w/ the boy before starting school and moving…and I REALLY lost it.

I wrote a nice, longggg email about how this isnt’ a love marriage and I don’t feel comfortable not having parents directly involved. I told them that its best to contact my parents since I refuse to make a deicsion without them involved in the process. So far I haven’t heard anything back so I hope uncle ji got the message.

I’m trying not to think the worst of people, but I’m seroiusly creeped out…why would he be doing that? This is completely arrnaged and I seriously have talked to the boy like 2x…so there’s no reason for them to think that I"m sooooo desperately in love w/ him or anything.

You shouldn’t have written him a long email nor replied to his emails in fact. Or just written an one-liner to discuss with your parents.