any idea whats going on

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Re: any idea whats going on

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no you dont …you can speak with your parents about this…discuss it …try to get them to see your point…im not sure if an email to the guy’s sis is a good idea…im uneasy about that one…but

having a heart to heart with your parents is something you can try…

I’ve tried and my parents arguments are:

1. We want to marry you into a family that rspects you
2. The guy’s weak and won’t stand up for you
3. Youre really young and you’ll find someone better

…all those are based on HUGE assumptions. If we know for a fact that the mom was crazy then yeah the first one’s valid…if not, then becaues of that we’re moving on to the next guy. And there are plenty of fish in the sea but how do I know that the guys that come after this are going to be good. What if there’s something wrong with the BOYs in that case (whereas with this its just the mom…)