Re: any idea whats going on
I’m fine w/ giving them a second chance but my parents are the type that don 't let go of things easily. My mom legitimately has changed her mind 4 x in the last hour about what she wants to do. I’m doing istikhara but the indecisiveness of my parents is starting to frustrate me to the point where I just want to say no so I know that’s over at least and no one can make it work then. I got an email from the guy’s sibling saying that they really like me and first my mom was gushing about how nice it was , telling me to reply back politely (without anything too over) and then when I did respond she came back and told me that I shouldn’t have because we’re not doing our rishta with them for sure…
have any of you been in a similar situation? The sibling told me I could tell them whatever (obviously I’m not gonna pour my heart out)…my moms like that’s it you can’t respond to any of their messages/emails anymore. My thing is if my parents are so against it and for sure want to cut it, I feel like at the very least the boy’s side should know what batameezi the mom did (my parents were fine w/ the rishta prior to this)…