Well no one deserves any physical or mental harm unless someone has committed heinous crimes, I think better choice of words would be that you don't feel sorry about her because in a way she herself caused it.
A Muslim husband wouldn't have done what her Jew husband did??
Muslim men cheat and are just as perverted as men of other religions. It's not a religion problem, it's a Man problem. Lest you disagree, are you saying that you can guarantee that a Muslim man would not have cheated on her?
A Muslim husband wouldn't have done what her Jew husband did??
I never used the term Muslim or Jew. I said "playboy". I think a muslim playboy would do the same.
The issue of her marriage to non-muslim is between her and her God but I definitely wouldn't support or approve such marriage if this is what you wanted to know.
Why are we speculating on what her parents must have gone through, or how she went against her religion etc? Does anyone here know her family and their religious beliefs and practises well. Just because she's born a Muslim doesn't make her a muslim, one's belief system does. So for all we know her parents couldn't care less about who she marries as long as she's happy and she doesn't either.
Even if after marrying a jew she still considers herself to be muslim, well how many of us do things that are haraam. I consider myself to be a practising muslim even but I don't cover, I openly co exist and freely socialise with people of the opposite sex. From my cousin's viewpoint who has a beard and his wife covers from head to toe, the things I do are probably haraam, and technically they are. Yes, I myself would not marry a non-muslim, but hey my cousin would never consider walking out with short sleeves. Its not for us to judge what kind of muslim someone is, unless we ourselves follow and practise the religion perfectly.
Also who says she's sufferings, she's a smart, capable, independent woman who knew of her husbands ways before she married him and could easily leave if she wanted, so who knows what she's getting out of the relationship. She might be a little embarassed from all this but she probably has her own reasons for marrying him and staying with him which don't include her being a victim.
^And doing that doesn't categorise you as rigid and obnoxious and self centered? Something to think about.
What? How does me pointing out my grandfather's faults make me self entered and obnoxious??? That makes no senseIf you want to call me those names do it directly. Why do it at the risk of seemig clueless?