As I was given no time to explain:
Regarding my post in girly thread.
I said "title of this thread should be materialistic or show off' but I was also participating in that thread and was showing off about the material I get (in your eyes it's down to earth) but I was still showing off so I don't think it's an offensive post in any way, I didn't call anyone materialistic or show off as Aisha and shay have called me by so many titles (like hypocrite, mullani, bully).
The issue here is that I'm also trying to present what I honestly think but this is being stopped by people who take offence to it so it seems there is biase with the mods, but that's okay with me, I can live with it ...I hope they can live with themselves knowing they have sided with those on morally weak ground.
And if you're saying I'm judging I'm using what " aqal " Allah has given me to decide what is right and wrong otherwise I wouldn't say it.
People need to ask themselves that are they offended by what I say because it is not true or because what I say has truth to it.
I don't know about that other thread specifically, but here is an elaboration of my personal views on your posts,. You can disagree.
I think both you and psyah make some excellent points. Both of you usually ground your posts in your interpretation of what Islam says and how it should be applied. Nothing wrong with it. So its not what you say that rubs ppl the wrong way, more often than not, its how you say it that just knocks people off.
When you start off your post by saying "I feel sorry for you", then even the most beautiful point you are making is now lost in your perceived arrogance. Humility and humbleness together with friendliness goes a long way. Plus it always helps to admit if one is wrong.
Lastly, please note that in Islam, evem the most learned scholars have disagreed with each other on many things. So there is really no one answer to any issue. A lot of times, you just have to give your opinion and move on. There is really no point in being stubborn about it. Keep believing what you believe in and accord others the same courtesy.