YOu fight back indirectly…NEVER directly in their face. Act innocent when there is a confrontation.
Listen woman, you want to keep your life sane and drama free? Get smart and do it fast. Do what you want but do it with a smile. They put the sugar in the wrong spot? Put it back right in front of her face but do it with a smile while telling her a funny story from your office.
Make efforts towards his parents in front of him so he sees you trying but do whatever it is your heart desires…just laugh it off or play innocent.
No, not mandated in Islam at all for a bahu to do saas and susar ki khidmat or live with them.
It IS mandated, however, for a husband to take care of his wife’s every need.