Re: another marriage problem..advice needed
so solly. I didnt realize theres another pcg out there. (nope i aint gonna try spelling it all out, i got in trouble b4 with me name spelling lol!) anyway, advice is the same whether its the "old" pcg or the new one....
Re: another marriage problem..advice needed
Thanks, but that’s not the advice I need in my life at the moment.
Choti pc: Don’t marry the Indian guy. Indians suck. Actually, don’t marry a Pakistani either. They suck too. Marry a gora. Especially an Italian man. They’re ishexy. :k:
Re: another marriage problem..advice needed
ok now i'm really rotfl-ing!!! To "old" PCG...theres good men in any culture....its just that its like looking fer a needle in a haystack you know? Italians can totally suck in their own way, just as any culture has their particular sukky things. Sexi-ness surely helps excuse them their bad behavior but there are sexy guys in most races/creeds/religions etc etc...you know that. When you find a man that you think you can love for a lifetime, its a very special gift, one worth fighting for, yea? And the smaller things like where they were raised should not be the major consideration in determining whether or not to marry.
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Faizy is CENT PER CENT right!!! PyariCgudya listen to what he said. Does your guy fall under the 0.000000000some%? Is he really worth leaving your parents? Leaving home is NEVER a good option. Later in life you will regret. The best way is to talk to your parents, get your uncles and aunts (those that are close to your parents) involved. But first you will have to win your uncles/aunts the ones that you think can influence your parents 
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pcg come on now, we all fall in love, nothing to be ashamed of…
and we wont ridicule u for marrying an indian…
go ahead, run away with him (ofcourse after getting married properly first)…
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gosh. u really make me think
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let me clarify…
if he was NICE enough upto that point, i will GUARENTEE you.. i repeat: GUARENTEE! you that in REGULAR arguments 36 months (3 years max) down the lane of married-life, he WILL taana-maar you by saying **‘ghar say bhagi hui aurat ki izzat kiya hay jo teri hogi’
if not these words, the words he will use will contain the similar meaning..
i know 4 cases “personally” and out of those 4 i aided in two of them.. 3 cases were gone bad after 2-3 years of VERY HAPPY married life..
brought me to the conclusion, that guy or girl, once leaves family, and leaves them behind, ALSO leaves the sukoon, happiness, and wishes of the ancestors behind and doesnt live happy..
i have witnessed long lists of things, heard of a lot, did a few, and let me assure you.. u may be VERY happy going against ur family, leaving house, getting married, JUST the two of you, but 99.5% of the time…the guy (in this case) WILL start to blame the girl..
i cant emphasize enough, and it IS YOUR decision, your mom said you gotta leave the house IF YOU WANT him..
you want my advice? listen to EVERYONE and do ONLY what YOU think is right for you.. cuz in the end, YOU will take the glory of the right step, AND the blame if its a wrong one.
having said that, MY advice is that NO GUY is worth leaving your family for..
(i know a smartass will always bring in: faizy so parents are worth killing your wishes/dreams for?) answer to that is, once u leave home, those wishes and dreams and mr.perfect will be CHANGED and reality wouldnt be what you THOUGHT so u should’ve stayed..
again, decision is YOURS dear.. 
goodluck 
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i do agree with faizy here- The way you wrote in this thread you seem pretty young. How old are you by the way?
If you are still in early teens and this 27 yr old dude is after you. oh boy are you making the biggest mistake of your life or what? That love fever will go away in months after marriage.
how would you feel if your daughter runs away from home?
I know of so many cases as well where girl is disowned my the family. She gets the back seat in the wedding halls and gets invitation only if her mother makes a scene. Its pathetic....
as i mentioned you sound very young if that is the case. This is just a fever for few days will go away...
i agree with old pcg as well.. italians are the real hottie... *hmmmm
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my dad doesnt wana listen to ny1..
ive tried everything… my aunts..uncles.. but they want sm1 in extreme richness..but i want sm1 i can love…
i already am blesses with tht sm1.. i dont just wana get married to himm..just like tht.. i wana spend the rest of my life with this guy…
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hi nia..
am 21…
hes not after me.. it was me who fell for him first.. i liked his simplicity… and the way with all thts he’s got..he dsnt show off..
i would feel bad if my daughter runs away
but im not runing away nia..thts the whole point if running away was one of the options thn it would be the frist 1..instead of goign through all this id just run away..
but i dont wana.. i wan my parents to be a part of my happniess…see how their daughter is happy with a man…etc..etc
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hi…
i understdn wat u are saying..but the guy im goign out with im not gona say different or he loves me more thn nything..but we understnd each other…
and also im not gona say his mom like me..so tht u can turn around and tell me thts how it is b4 marrige and thn after tht it just is the other way around…
he comes from a very educated family.. and very calm ppl…
anyway’z..thnks:)
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faizy are u really a guy coz i have never seen a guy who is very caring very nice and decent plus who has respect in his heart for ladies.so its very surprising for me that u r a man,
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dont take my honesty for caring, nice and decent.. PLEASE! i am simply STATING whats true ... i VERY WELL may've been 1 of those guys that give guys a bad name...and presenting u examples from my own life.. :p
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I am sorry I just have to laugh at the last and second last post 
Now back to the topic faizy is right; I am in no position of giving advice but I can certainly agree with him. If guy’s family is welcoming u with their open heart and wont cause you any mental harm then I’d suggest go with mom’s decision. And if later on they do it you’d have to be strong enough to bear that, prepare yourself for later life. God forbid what if they get you divorce later on, do you have a job? r u done with ur studies? do you any experience whatsoever? Once you leave ur parent’s place, you will be on ur own if guy turns out to be mamma’s boy or a jerk. I would suggest that be friend with him see how things go, complete ur education, get a job, become something/someone. Life is unfair and don’t expect any treat on silver platter, always be ready for the next step of ur life. Its a stage where you have to take a stand for what you want and then all ur life u have to make sacrifices and stand by it. Good Luck!
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thts exactly wat im working at..but even ther ei havea problem..
my dad doesnt want me to work..n im scared if he gets to know or found out tht i do… it’ll put me in deper mess…
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Life is better spent studying academics and working hard for a good cause...like um...learning to write in proper or at least near-proper English grammar and spelling.
At least that's time better spent than wasting it on some guy that will probably stop caring for you once he's gotten into your pants.
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PCG why do you have to be so cold all the time, you can relax honz once in awhile and drop ur weapons. Not all men are same! Yes we all have needs but that doesn’t mean that’s the only thing in life they want. Some of them actually care about you and love you all their life; no matter what you do they are ready to take blame for it.
pcg I wish I could tell you to go against your dad, but did you try finding out why he is so against of you working? Did you ever communicate with him, I mean ever? I know we all respect our parents and don’t want to go against their wills; however, sometimes you have to take extreme steps that can change ur life forever. Yes rarely you do get lucky n most of the time u regrets it, and this is the time for you to think about it. Even talk to that guy tell him the whole situation, you can involve his parents too. If his parents are happy to take you in as their daughter, then go with ur mother’s suggestion.
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[quote=“pagaldeewani”]
I am sorry I just have to laugh at the last and second last post
wai yaara jab tumko itna hansi aata hai to humko yeh bhi batado k humne tumko konsa lateefa sunaya hai.
wai humko to jo laga humne bol dia.humko b batao tumko hansi kyon aaya:clown:
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I cudn’t agree more
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sighz lets just say… pagaldeewani knows the owner of ‘faizy’ account VERY well ..and it was indeed a VERY ironic post… coming from me…
rite?