Another Indian Heroine

She is an inspiration to all oppressed women all over the world.

Ashok Banker’s film portrays mother’s rape in high society

BOMBAY (Reuters) - Author Ashok Banker is making a film about the gang rape of his mother, a well-known 1970s model, to show victims are not just the poor and powerless as the country comes to terms with a series of brutal rapes in recent months. The film, “Beautiful Ugly”, documents events 28 years ago leading up to and after the gang rape of Sheila Ray, who never reported the crime. She died in 1990 aged 44. "I want this film to show that rape also happens in the so-called glamour world of films and modelling and is not just something that happens on the streets and villages of India " Banker told Reuters in an interview. “She was gang-raped by four men during a party and then dumped outside her home in the early hours of the morning.” “She didn’t report it to the police fearing that she would be stigmatised and her career would suffer, but in the end she suffered as it drove her to having a nervous breakdown and her career never recovered.”

**Activists say a woman is raped every 30 minutes in India, with the majority of cases going unreported. National Crime Records Bureau data show more than 18,100 people were tried for rape in 2003, with just 4,645 convicted. **Banker, who was 12 years old at the time of the rape, said he spent years researching what happened to his mother and discovered many women working in India’s Bollywood film and glamour industry have been sexually assaulted, yet remain silent.

CONSERVATISM AND FEAR

He said a combination of conservatism and fear still prevails in the country, despite the lavish, liberal lifestyle of a growing number of socialites who spend their time at cocktail parties in five-star hotels and exclusive nightclubs. “Although rape is now a much more talked about issue in India, still women face the possibility of being ostricised from their social circles and in the workplace, even in more liberal, urban societies,” said Banker, a well-known author of fantasy novels. “But more importantly, many of these rapists are well-known, high-profile men, and victims not only fear they would jeopardise their careers by reporting to the police but also that police will not take action against these high-level people,” he added. Thousands of young women flock to from all over India every year, hoping to make it big as a Bollywood heroine or a catwalk model. But with competition so high, many end up in dance bars, performing for men for money, or even as prostitutes. Banker said he hoped the film would be released by September in time for its screening at the Sundance Film Festival. He said even though “Beautiful Ugly” was not a typical Bollywood blockbuster, he believed it would attract much attention in and outside of because of its unusual content. “I don’t expect this movie to be a money spinner, but I hope that views can be changed and these high-profile men who work in the industry realise that they no longer can take advantage of young women and get away with it,” Banker said.

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Thank you Silly Billy.

Reading the other thread, I was wondering at what rate women were raped in India cz as per my information, it's one of the countries where women have the most degraded status just for being a women. The hindu culture advocates that to their society. And the rate was higher than any other country in the world. So, it is one woman in 30 minutes. Enlightening!

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I am completely in Awe of this men,who serve as role model for all. He is indeed a hero to all.

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South Africa reports the highest incidence of rape in the world. A woman is raped every 20 seconds; and only one in 35 reports it to the authorities. A recent report issued by the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan estimated that a woman is raped every two hours in Pakistan, but it said most sexual assaults went unreported because of the social stigma attached to such charges and the difficulty in proving them. In Punjab a woman is raped every six hours and a woman is gang-raped every four days, yet only 321 rape cases were reported to the police last year.
Every 26 minutes a woman in India is molested. Every 34 minutes a woman is raped. Every 42 minutes a woman is sexually harassed. Every 43 minutes a woman is kidnapped. Every 93 minutes a woman is killed. And those are just the cases that are reported

http://www.dancinginthedarkness.com/articles.php?show=5&arc=194

Comparison of rape stats of two countries is a pointless exercise, since it only trivializes the real issue - that rape happens everywhere. It’s morally wrong to say “look, at least we are better than the indians when it comes to rape,” and then feel good about ourselves. Even though rapes are more prevalent in India, you ever wonder why paksitan gets all the bad rep? It’s because how we treat the rape victim afterwards…

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^ Yep and Indians provide all the justice to the rape victims, right.

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I dont think this is about "we are better when it comes to rape" bullsh!t. I am more inquisitive to know why an indian missed the above news about the women of his native land and is too eager to praise Pakistani women in the same situation. Does that mean he does not care or bothers to bring attention to such incidents in his own country and who is taking what initiative to stop that? Or is he especially in love with the women of Pakistan and only wants to discuss and see their well being? Really wishing well?

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I being a Pakistani would like to first see what problems the people of my country encounter and how I can help them. I would worry later about the rest of the world. "Charity begins at home." One who forgets to mention home intentionally or unintentionally is either cruel or is not honest with his own people OR other people.

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^ that was exactly my point. You hit the nail....i could care less what the bhindians think r do about their damsels.

I am more interested in bringing down that "2 hours" down to zero.

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TNWB, you should post this same reply in the other thread for the likes of Sara to read and learn and tell here to stay away from PCG. :slight_smile:

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oh really,everyday i learn new things here.

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^ live and learn...just like non muslims come to this site to teach us about Islam, it is about time we taught Indians about India...dont you think?

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Would you like me to post articles on how rape victims are really treated in India? It would surprise you quite a bit to learn that other societies are just as bad, if not worse, it’s just they try harder to hide it.

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Post where? What you talkin’ about, man?

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Rape happens everywhere, to all different social and economic backgrounds; we’ve established it’s not just poor women who are victimized. But to use a horrific crime like that to say that “Oh well we’re not the only bad ones” is just wrong. It doesn’t matter how much you hate the messenger, in this case Danda; why can’t you concentrate on the issue at hand? Everything always becomes an “Us vs. them” battle. Do you really think a woman who’s been gang raped, had her whole life ruined really feels better that the same thing is happening to her South African, Indian, Chinese, etc etc sisters? You guys seem to see it from a political point of view, I"m just trying to see it from the poor women’s perspectives.

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good point.

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dude, please tell us more about the culture in your country where you burn your widows…it will be a nice cultural exchnage of ideas.

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Sara I am sorry you have spent too much time with likes of PCG. TNWB summed it up completely and you still fail tocomprehend it. No one is advocating rape or denying that it does not happen in Pakistan, we all know it does. We all agree that something needs to be done to stop these crimes against women.

So from your poor women’s perspective does not include Indain women to the tune of every 30 minutes…huh…you got some weird perspective.

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Since when did I differentiate between the “poor women” and Indian women every 30 minutes? :konfused: I just said that I look through the victim’s perspectives rather than “Indians are just as bad!” that always always always comes up whenever the issue of rape in Pakistan comes up. I didn’t say that you people said it doesn’thappen or doesn’t exist or are advocating it but rather, some decide to attack other countries and cultures instead of looking at why such problems exist among their own…

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Sara, you are missing the point. I was quoting the statistic of women being attacked/harrased in India every 30 minutes. plus, I dont think it (Indians are just as bad) always comes up. It is the selective memory of the folks that makes them think that it always comes up.

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Okay this doesn’t make sense… Did you think PD was making fun of you or something by saying a woman who overcame being raped and suffering the consequences was a heroine? Why do you guys get so up in arms if someone mentions something bad that happens in pak? In every single thread about rape or abuse, someone has to say that Indians or Americans are worse. It just doens’t make any sense to me, srry :bummer: