another guys perspective on married life and managing family stuff

[X2]

@P_G

her masla ki noy’eyat alag hotee hai ..kuch massail aysay bhi derpaish hotay hain jis main app ka partner ghalatee per honay k bawjood apnay app ko sahee samjhta hay or maslay ka hal nahi nikal paata

yup, it depends on the nature of the issue, but the overwhelming majority of issues are not those that warrant discussing it with others.

and even those that warrant getting an outside opinion have to be shared with the right person/people

and they have to be shared in a mature manner, and with an expectation of a mature answer.

what we have too much of is unwarranted venting, groaning and whining to the wrong people, in the wrong place..

that is why the gossip factories in desi khandans and communities break their productivity records every year.

but as I noted earlier..

@X2

that’s an extreme and serious situation. I am talking more about voicing or sharing of run of the mill issues. It’s pretty cut and dry if it’s a major thing. Majority of the ongoing stress in many family situations is due to minutia that should just be tackled by a couple.

You may get over some dumb fight in a few days but others may complicate things otherwise and the whole he said this she said that, don’t tell anyone I told u type of stuff just goes haywire.