Re: another guys perspective on married life and managing family stuff
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1) told begum that her and my issues stay between her and me. her family does not get involved, mine does not get involved unless we sit down talk about it and decide that is what is needed, concern being I had seen too many cases where every tim dick and harry was involved in some couple's affairs and complicated things
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her masla ki noy'eyat alag hotee hai ..kuch massail aysay bhi derpaish hotay hain jis main app ka partner ghalatee per honay k bawjood apnay app ko sahee samjhta hay or maslay ka hal nahi nikal paata
aysay main app ko 3rd person involve kerna perta hay
in my case i did same thing what u said ..and in the end sub nay meray is ammal ko ghalat kaha k kaash tum kissi ko kuch bata daytee to halaat aysay na hotay
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2) told family that my married life is my business and unless there is some major concern that how we live our life should not be a matter of debate plus if there are any concerns with what my wife does, says, wears, eats, watches, cooks, to let me know privately and I will manage
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app apnay parents ko aisay kahain gay to yeh ik terah say gustakhe or bay adbee samjhee jatee hai k HAMRA koi HAQ hee nahi hai
humaray muashray kam say kam yeh asool nahi chal sakta