that’s an extreme and serious situation. I am talking more about voicing or sharing of run of the mill issues. It’s pretty cut and dry if it’s a major thing. Majority of the ongoing stress in many family situations is due to minutia that should just be tackled by a couple.
You may get over some dumb fight in a few days but others may complicate things otherwise and the whole he said this she said that, don’t tell anyone I told u type of stuff just goes haywire.