Annoying phone habits and husband

[rafo2k13]

Re: Annoying phone habits and husband

@rouz

It’s alright, I’ve decided not to talk to him too much until he gets here now, which should be within the next couple of months inshaAllah. Ignoring it works once or twice but it’s very difficult to ignore the constant drama going on in the background. I can’t even stand it when he goes out to talk because the noise on the roads from cars honking is worst than the noise in his house. Oh and I tried leaving the tv on once last year and it bothered me more than it bothered him because I could barely hear him and he as usual started a conversation with someone else in the middle. I wonder how my friend’s fiancé deals with this because she has the same annoying habit.

What’s the poor guy supposed to do? I live in London our house is tiny and occasionally i have my cuzns around and it’s IMPOSSIBLE to get away from the noise, either i stand outside in the cold or stay inside with all the noise. My partner gets really annoyed with it too but he should understand that no matter how many doors i close you’ll still hear them. whereas in his house it’s pin-drop silence. Long distant relationships are so hard because it’s so difficult to understand each other’s circumstances. I know it bothers him but seriously where am i supposed to go? Similarly he might not be phased by all the noise but your not used to it so you will be. try your best to put up with it and try and be tolerent. Allah rewards women for their patience with their spouses and like you said it’s not long now and he’ll be with you