Annoying Friend

Have you ever met your spouse’s friend, who you just did not like. But because your spouse was close to them and had been friends with them for a while, what would you do? And even after that friend turned out to be a loser, who seemed to not have any respect or concern, but your spouse still treated that friend really nicely, how do you get rid of an annouying, pain in the bum friend, who you just want to smack with a baseball bat :slight_smile: or a large pot! (friend is an alcoholic pot head lol)

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you tlel ur wife that u can't stand this person and nxt time do not invite him with uthere ... and bas after a while slowly and surely urwife will cut him off

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I'm a girl :S hehehhehe

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Cook bad meal or meal he does not like/allergic to, start vacuuming the carpet where he sits, complain of bad headache and go upstairs when he comes, scream at your husband from upstair for water, make his wife a good friend and ask her to call him when he is at your home by telling her he and your husband are up to no good when together....etc.

Lots of ways!

Now send me the check!;)

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just tell ur husband he gives u the weird looks and u sometimes get the feelin that hes chekin u out ... and just watch :)

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Tell your husband he looks at you in a very lewd manner.

Ive been there and the only thing that works with annoying people like that is cutting them off.

If he has not looked at you in bad way or not given you dirty look then don't say that to your husband. It is a sin to to falsely blame someone or mischaracterize someone (Bohtan).

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Its also not nice to create problems in someone's marriage. ^

It's even not nicer to blame someone falsely for something very serious misconduct.
Do we agree there?

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Sure. However, I do know that if my husband's friends caused problems between him and I...they would be the first ones to go...whatever means necessary.

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Have you talked to your hubby as to how u feel about this friend of his?

*I am sorry, I do not agree with false blame of such nature on anyone man or woman.
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Not only it may be a lie, but can be devastating to someone. In some instances, if not proven, it is a serious crime too to blame someone like this.

This kind of 'weapon' should never be used by women.

Being annoying is something, being someone with such low character is other.

I am still assuming that the person was just an annoying friend of the husband based on available info.

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He is your husband's friend, so you don't have to feel the need to befriend him to the extent your husband has. Keep it civil and if it makes you really uncomfortable, tell your husband how you feel about this friend. You have nothing to lose.

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I agree with dildirani...you married him not his friends....