Re: annoyed
Just ignore him. Uff I hate poeple like this, acting like they have the "right" to have your phone number and you are in the wrong for not giving it to them?!
Thats seriously gross. He is so messed up if he was serious about this. Wouldnt he like to see his sister sitting at a restaurant being fed by the waiter!
One funny incident comes to mind:
I was at a desi restaurant once and usually the waiters are young, desi college kids and I try to be nice because not only are their jobs are hard but desies are generally not good tippers. By nice, I mean saying thank you and please and tipping well, nothing more.
Apparently, I was an oddity!!! After dinner, my girlfriends went to the restroom and I volunteered to watch the purses. Our waiter comes upto our table with this dopey grin plastered on his face and says "Madam, can I feed you?". I thought my ears were failing me so I said "Sorry?".
He repeats himself:
"Madam can I feed you? My brathar say I cant do it. They call me chikan. I say NO! Madam is nice girl! Tum log dekho, she will let me feed her! Madam mein apko ek nivala khila sakta hoon? Meri shart lagi hai poore sau dollar ki!".
Im so irritated with this dialogue I say "I dont understand...aap mujhse aisi baatein kyun karrahe hein?".
"Madam, mere paise nikal jayenge. Please! Bas ek nivala!"
I think he argued with me a bit more before my friends came and rescued me...believe me I was upset with them for leaving me that long.
Needless to say...he didnt get tipped that night. :)
Re: annoyed
well, it may seem we london girls are stuck up, so be it!
its gud to just look away, or if you get the guy who just stares then u gotta stare him back, giving the evil eye :D other wise you give one smile and his gonna be thinking wife, marriage, kidz, passport etc.........
Re: annoyed
Okay, now lets see. What did Zardari do in front of the whole world when he met Sarah Palin? if thats the president, what do you expect?
no offense to a lot of the rest pakistani men who are quite cultured and civilised, but there are always a few bad apples. you just gotta get over it sometimes!
Re: annoyed
Hun if he really annoys you then ignore him completely. Give him the hand. Stop worrying so much about his feelings if it really bothers you. Simple as that.
At least that's what I always did.
One funny incident comes to mind:
I was at a desi restaurant once and usually the waiters are young, desi college kids and I try to be nice because not only are their jobs are hard but desies are generally not good tippers. By nice, I mean saying thank you and please and tipping well, nothing more.
Apparently, I was an oddity!!! After dinner, my girlfriends went to the restroom and I volunteered to watch the purses. Our waiter comes upto our table with this dopey grin plastered on his face and says "Madam, can I feed you?". I thought my ears were failing me so I said "Sorry?".
He repeats himself:
"Madam can I feed you? My brathar say I cant do it. They call me chikan. I say NO! Madam is nice girl! Tum log dekho, she will let me feed her! Madam mein apko ek nivala khila sakta hoon? Meri shart lagi hai poore sau dollar ki!".
Im so irritated with this dialogue I say "I dont understand...aap mujhse aisi baatein kyun karrahe hein?".
"Madam, mere paise nikal jayenge. Please! Bas ek nivala!"
I think he argued with me a bit more before my friends came and rescued me...believe me I was upset with them for leaving me that long.
Needless to say...he didnt get tipped that night. :)
u shuda slapd the plates on him ....and say betin is haram and then slap him for even apprchin with such disgusting attitude!
Re: annoyed
@topic ...jus ignore the guy...seems like he is a creeeeey loser with no respect for anyone! and ppl like tht do not deserve any consideration!