Most girls in the west aren’t keen on beards, I would have said ‘no’ as well, the main issue being the kissing thing that’s already been mentioned by others.. A lot of girls don’t mind goatees or mild facial hair but I like totally smooth.. Like RV said tho it’s all down to personal preference, you should just find a girl who has no problem with it or if u don’t want to lose her just shave it off or keep a goatee or something.. I guess the more religious hijabi or niqaabi girls will often prefer a guy with a proper beard seeing as tho it’s obviously sunnah..
I think ‘back home’ girls just aren’t as fussy in general, perhaps cos they have less freedom to be..
I also dont think it's against Islam to trim your beard to make it look more presentable if that's a turn on for your wife. She likewise grooms herself for you, right? Is it against Islam for you to ask her to wear some slutty ensemble to bed? Or to wax her mustache? Or to shape her eyebrows? Or to put on some perfume?
There is a big difference between the mane of maulana diesel and that of Amir liaqat hussain. One is not classy and the other is. Islam doesn't specify a STYLE of beard, so quit justifying long beards. Having a gotee or a small trimmed beard which is combed is sufficient.