An Obedient Wife ..

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Re: An Obedient Wife ..

@Chicken_Biryani

**So as per Islamic teachings a wife is to give utmost obedience to her husband. **While a husband has been asked to look after the wife and be as caring and loving as possible.

In an ideal scenario that is what helps a relationship a lot. But given the desi mindset , where mothers and sisters of men start using them to control the bhabi / DIL , how much of obedience would you give to the husband, to manage the situation?

You have been either living too long or from too little age in to a western country.

**There is no such thing that a wife is to give utmost obedience to her husband.
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There is no definition of utmost obedience which anyone of us could agree on either.

Your thread is based on something which is misunderstood.

For the second sentence: BOTH husbands and wives are EXPECTED to look after each other and…

Unlike other societies, Islam never ASKS so called love in between two spouses. Very very delicate point here.

Islam builds the basic background so both spouses love each other but never ASKS (as if forces) them to love each others.