Wow! Such stereotyping! So all 40 year old European single men think the same?
I know 2 couples in real life where the man is white and the woman is Asian. One of those couples, the woman (Chinese, late 30’s) met the man (white, almost 60; Yep…almost 20 years age difference) online. They met online almost 4 years ago…and now, 4 years later, she’s here in the U.S., they’re married with 1 child. I obviously don’t know what goes on behind closed doors but from what I see outside, they seem like a happy family. At least out in public, this guy STILL treats her like a princess.
Just b/c this guy is white and older and is attracted to a Asian girl, doesn’t mean he’s a jerk who’ll hurt her! If your friend dated a Asian guy who’s also 28, do you think that’s a guarantee that she won’t get hurt?
Give the guy a chance. See if there’s something OTHER than his age/race that’s an “indicator” of him being a jerk.