My view on this matter is very much a Pakistani nationalist one. An independent Kashmir has an even less of a chance of happening then merger with Pakistan. I am not confusing Jammu with Kashmir Valley, historically there have significant linkages during the Gandhara, Asoka periods. Sure Jammu itself has had linkages during the BC Indus Valley period. The geographic destiny of Kashmir is linked to Pakistan, whether it is the access points in Punjab, Pakhtunkwa or the migration patterns of Kashmiris, to the familial linkages that survive to the present day.
Religion: All of Pakistan was not converted by Bin Qasim. Bringing what is now the areas of Pakistan within the Muslim fold ocurred in similar gradual respects by Sufi missionaries. The fact that the majority of Kashmir (undivided) is Muslim is significant.
Language: Ofcourse Urdu is not the local language of Kashmir, however it is the a state in India that has Urdu as its official langauge which ties it to Pakistan. Even the Kashmiri language is written in Perso-Arabic script. An Urdu speaker will ot be able to understand Baluchi or Pakhtu, both are Eastern Iranian languages, or Sindhi which is linked to more of the Indian language family. What I am trying to say is that there is an Urdu heritage in Kashmir.
More signficantly (and please be fair about this) Pakistan has fought 2 of 3 wars with India, its blood spilled in the name of Kashmir. Not a day goes by where Pakistan brings up the Kashmir issue. It has kept the struggle of the Kashmiris alive in the International arena. We have done this because a great injustice has been done to your people, our Pakistani Muslim ideology led by Quaid E Azam calls for our eventual merger. There is no other place that a Pakistani would give lives for except Kashmir. Do you think that Kashmiri (Independence) activists could have put Kashmir into the same level of prominence? Even with their best efforts and platforms, a soverign nation like Pakistan has the influence to bring the matter to everyones attention.
So you can turn your back on us, but we will not do the same. Many Pakistanis would not have a problem with Independent Kashmir, but I ask you, have our efforts been in vain?