hi Shikra bhai. how are you? the idea is to make sure that the root cause is taken care of. in such things, facing the diturbing element is necessary.
Hi Dushi jee, I am fine, and hope the same for you.
I don't mean to be blunt, but if she really wants to take care of the root cause, there was no need to open this thread to beat the drums. A simple e-mail letting him know that "with all due respect, it is not possible for her to meet him alone. She would love to meet him when he comes with his family". I don't see why we need discussion on this simple solution.
She's gotta do what she's gotta do.