Niksik mami, off topic but how would you tell a married man to stop pesturing you and that you do not want to talk to him on the phone or meet him or for that matter have anything to do with him?
If I were unmarried, I would deal with it differently.
And being a married woman, I would always keep my husband in the loop if there was a question of concern.
Personally, if the guy knows I am married and is still hitting on me then I have probably done something to warrant that kind of behavior. Lemme tell ya, sarey mard pervert nahi hotay hain, some women also give open invitations for trouble. Now if he doesn't know I'm married and is a coworker or acquaintance, I would let him know that I am a happily married woman, and if persistency occurs even after that, danda time from hubby dear. Yeah.