Today I had dinner with my American Pakistani friends and I asked them the same question and they were like yea its right, we ain’t getting married here. And I was like why? and they were like ‘dude the girls here … kanoon ko haat lagayaing’ , but than someone asked them if they will be willing to go marry someone from their pind, and they were like ‘No, they are just pure embarrassment’ … 
aww kinay shareef hain