I thought most of these cases were about white guys looking for very submissive women, not avoiding golddiggers?
As an aside, I used to work as a counselor in a doctor’s office. A guy came in with his wife and said she needed some birth control counseling but only spoke Arabic, so they had me talk to her. Turns out, she was Malaysian and didn’t speak a word of Arabic—but she was Muslim and prayed in Arabic, and that was all this guy understood about his wife. It made me want to puke and I felt so bad for this girl. Clearly a mail order situation, and clearly he was just a pig who wanted someone who wouldn’t talk back----didn’t even know what her language was. 