Re: American wanting to marry a man from Pakistan
well, as far as i can see, do not trust anyone to make your decisions for you even do not let them plant a tiny bit of an idea in your head. We are all trolls over here at the GS. Most of us think that our idea of relationship is certainly based on raising red flags and many of us are not willing to move beyond that stage just because they are looking for reasons not to work things out, its not algebra and its not certainly an exam which you can pass after reading a certain book. Its real life do not try to solve it on some website. Most importantly, do not seek advice from someone you dont know. Many of these guys came to US like that and if not them, their parents came to US like that and now they think that every other pakistani man is a scam.
Having said that, i certainly believe that you may blow off a sure thing or it really is a scam but if you really want to find out you have to do it by yourself.