American wanting to marry a man from Pakistan

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Re: American wanting to marry a man from Pakistan

It's a trap.

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Thank you all for taking the time to give me your sincere advise. But i will keep you all updated.

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Re: American wanting to marry a man from Pakistan

Wow I see.... thank you so much whiterice... and may God bless your marriage.

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Re: American wanting to marry a man from Pakistan

Thank you enchanting rose!

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Silaaj.... he did offered me to move and stay in Pakistan with him. He said it was much easier for him since he has his business over there. But i said no.

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Do you plan to live in pakistan after the marriage.It can be hard adjusting to different culture.

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Have you two actually met in person?

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Or a FBI sting operation

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No.but were planning to.

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Dear Michelle!

I was very clear on this: No threads on GS about our relationship.

You didn't listen to me. So its over now.

I am going to tell mom to say yes for phuppi ki beti Rukhsana. She is not un-obedient like you, and makes perfect gol rotis, and has recently passed her FA examination with flying colors.

Good bye Michelle. I am sorry, but we were never meant to be together.

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Wow qabil lol funny! But anyways... thank you all for your advise and support and will keep in touch with you all to see what happens!

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Just wanted to ask if there was any Muslim man or anyone knew of a Muslim man marrying an American woman and just leave everything behind in their home country?

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^ Are you specifically asking about leaving behind culture and religion?

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Re: American wanting to marry a man from Pakistan

Doesn't sound right. You can do better than a mobile store owner

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Re: American wanting to marry a man from Pakistan

Yes enchanting rose

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Re: American wanting to marry a man from Pakistan

So what is better to you rolla coaster?

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Re: American wanting to marry a man from Pakistan

So what is better to you rolla coaster?

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I would advise you to tread very very carefully. You do not know what this man's true intentions are (and hey they may very well be good) but until you have met him do not even contemplate making plans about the future. Cross cultural marriages can be difficult...as it has been pointed out here. And especially when this person you are talking to has (presumably) never been to America or been exposed to the American cultur etc. I presume you will be going to Pakistan to meet him? Do not go alone, take someone with you and see how it goes. If it goes well, great. If not, make it a holiday. There have been many instances of Pakistani girls born and raised abroad who have fallen into traps by marrying men from back home...who essentially discard them after obtaining their visa. So be very careful! You are especially vulnerable as you seem to be very trusting towards someone you have never met before.

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It's a bad idea. Why are you falling for these trolls ? You do realize there are lots of guys sitting in Pakistan who are pulling scams? It's scam central over there.

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Very true thank you princess