American System

Or downright keep quiet and their hands safe in their pockets and don't remove them until the bill is paid!

Thankfully this is only one couple i know who r like that, everyone else are cool, with regular socialising friends it doesnt matter who pays because everyone gets a chance to pay at some point in time. With parents - we try never let them pay but sometimes we have to allow it so that they feel happy. Siblings - not an issue at all, it can be anyone or everyone.

Very nice of u!

hey thats gr8! so sweet of u.