what if the younger ones have a higher disposable income :)
I never agreed with this eldest pays all approach, and even when i am with older cousins I would pay here and there.
putting some rules and protocols around it complicates things ya know
its not abt who earns more but if the elder is earning enough to afford all the expenses without a problem than he should take it without thinking or wanting his younger to pay. But its the youngers duty too to chip in once in a while and if he is loaded than he should try and treat the other brother too....
C its not abt money but somethings just look good the way like this....like for example an elder wouldnt luk bad scolding u even for not a very good reason but if a younger person scolds an elder even for the rite reason it luks odd....get it? or dont i make any sense........oh well :D