Re: American Pakistanis
Glad that the message got across. It seems she had to sound serious to make that work. 
Move on and no need to think bad of all desi men/families/rishta process.
Everyone has reasons for not liking which other person may not understand.
Good luck.
Follow this rule:
Tou Nahin Aur Sahi, Aur Nahin, …Aur Sahi.