American Pakistanis

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Re: American Pakistanis

@blessed2006

yup usually those are the common reasons..**.but i have kind of seen that girls who are into wrong path as in disobey their parents… **their parents think a dude from pak will be good for them before they end up running with someone…also visa thing is a benefit for the dude…what benefit do the girl or her parents get in calling the guying all over from pak and going through the visa hassle?..i mean no one would do it free of cost i am assuming thats what they want a Pakistani husband and they give greed of the visa.

rest again god knows

Well whose fault is that? Most parents who raise their kids with the proper values, love and attention their kids aren’t going to act out or “go the wrong path”–sons and daughters.
I really hate this mentality that marriage is somehow a cure for all things, how messed up is that? They’d rather pass the “problem” off to an innocent person rather than deal with their kids themselves.

@Omer259

When men are looking to get married, they need a person who is culturally a Pakistani, someone who understands and speaks our native language at home rather than english, has the same tastes and fashions as a typical Pakistani. enjoys the same jokes/activities etc. It is very difficult to find those qualities in girl born and bred in the US/UK/Canada. The men are looking not only for their own compatibility but also how easy would it be for their spouse to fit in with his family, some of whom might not like speaking english at home, all the time. All these factors become even more important in the future when the man would have kids, so he can ensure that his children are knowledgeable of the Pakistani culture and values of his family. All this doesn’t mean that there aren’t Pakistani girls born and bred in the west but still have our cultural and religious values, it is just a little difficult to find them. So the easy way to guarantee that your future spouse would follow your cultural values is to marry someone from Pakistan

Dude what country do you live in? Do you really think that there are no Pakistanis who teach their kids values

@Hadeel

Okay so everyone is angry if someone says that girls from abroad aren’t good enough for the desi guys or whatever but in the mean time no one minds when some of you around here imply that girls from Pakistan are slutty and are not good enough for anything i.e motherhood or shaadi. It goes both ways, there are every sort of people around the world, the good ones and the bad ones and being sarcastic or judgmental about this fact just makes one shallow.

Agree–it’s not fair to bash Pakistani women either as they have their own struggles and it’s not all that easy or roses either for them.