Re: American Pakistanis
Its sad but true. This attitude is disadvantageous for girls bred in West as there tend to be less suitable rishtas available there but it is also not a very colouful scenario for desi girls like me living in Eastern part of the world that we have to come up to the expectations of these guys and their families who want a typical bahu and we will have to work hard to prove ourselves.
I know of my cousin who was not so used to doing household chores because of availability of maids in Pakistan and now she is managing her house completely after marriage in the US and caring for her large in-laws family. It was a good proposal otherwise so her family accepted the proposal at once.