Re: American Pakistanis
Of course that’s a positive…for the man. 
I love how if a woman is willing to take everything, even abuse, from a man, it’s seen as her adhering to cultural values but if a man gives his wife consideration, he’s considered too Ameircanized.
Gotta love hypocrisy of desis (desi desi AND abcd/bbcd/adofkjsafdodd desis)