Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG
I don't see the point in trolling you kids. I don't have that kind of time...lol.
Yes, I am an emotional wreck right now... and I would say that largely has to do with me being so far away from my comfort zone. Away from family and all my American friends. I am in the GCC, with all the time in the world and just work... If you really think about it... I have just been reading. I have read probably 8,000 pages in various books over the past half year or so. The loneliness and solitude have really gotten to me....
Yeah when I kissed her... I felt that she had some kissing exp too... and the way she expressed how she liked being kissed on the neck... and also "love bites"... I am almost certain she is denying something... but in the end... regardless of what exp. she has i know i'm in on another planet of exp. I wish she would just be more upfront about it.... oh well.
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan…OMG
Haha yeah right? Isn’t that some irony? I can’t help it… the materialism doesn’t phase me…but yeah…what can I do… sometimes you just can’t help who you fall for…
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG
Multani u r NOT strong u r not able to control yourself...
fu..... around wid every second girl n drinking n smoking n sleeping around is not normal...
Even not for an american born...
wonder if ur parents ever tried to stop u n wondering where have they been for last 27 years?!
I agree wid icicle1 she isnt daaaaat innocent...
Naik aurat ko naik shohar milega
Naik mard ko naik biwi
Badaurat ko bad mard
Bad mard ko us jaisi
So its easy for u to decide which category u n ur future wife belong to
seriously itni si umar mein itna experience kab ki bus hojani chahiyeh thi....
This is such a fallacy its not funny. Just because I partake in a certain lifestyle that doesn't resonate with you...does not make me weaker. Just because smoking and drinking are not religious status quo doesn't make me weak... maybe not as religious...and i'm not advocating it makes me stronger...it's just my vice....its a choice I made... and I agree it's not the best choice...and I date women...and sleep etc... because i seek love and affection...it's not just to have sex... it's because you want that love...
N your saying in the end... is your entitled to what you sow... If i had a volatile lifestyle, I would agree... but fortunately I think I have caught myself in time. Better late than never.
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG
grow up...what're u..like 14? whats there to hate about this guy...all he's saying is he was pretty liberal since a very young age and never really had a serious relationship...but now he's head over heels over some grl he thought he would never fall for. whats there to be grossed out about?
@ icicle1 THANK YOU. Spot on...thats like my whole post in a couple of sentences ... It's not for everyone...but you got it. This is life...it's not a fairy tale... there's nothing gross about this... people sleep around, people do drugs,...people make mistakes...people repent.
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG
actually you're right...he does speak of the previous women that he's had sexual relationships with as scum and yet somehow he's still above them and the girl he'll marry will be above them as well. i suppose its our ego thats just that inflated that we think every other human being is somehow and in some way beneath us.
They aren't really scum...the point I was trying to generalize... is that I don't hold my behavior and activities paramount. The intimacy is great, and its not going to be great with everyone... and I'm not above or below anyone. If my tone comes of that...it's to establish that I have made mistakes. I'm not going to call every girl i slept with an angel...thats just retarded....and this isn't solely about sleeping around...
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan…OMG
Man…stop thinking about her & write some material for hollywood… c’mon dont let yourself waste for such a desi pakistani girl… you’ve got talent Man… you have ability to get people’s interest with ur writing skills
…who knows you may walk on Red Carpet one day!!!
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan…OMG
Aim for the stars, and you’ll land on the moon.
Aim for the moon and you’ll land on the clouds.
Land on the clouds and you’ll fall through the sky
Fall through the sky and you’ll land on the floor.
Land on the floor, and you’ve just gone nowhere.
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG
I think you should treat the relationship with your cousin as a side project and not depend upon it too much. If it bears fruit. Great. If it doesn't atleast you were not completely invested in it.
Meanwhile, you are only 27 and lucky enough that you can have your sexual, physical intimacy and companionship needs met without getting married or too committed. Do realize that most guys start pestering their moms to get them married at your age because they want these needs met..not because they were longing for some girl of their dreams or some happily ever after or something. Marriage may disappoint you, keep that in mind.
Your marriage prospects with Pakistani girls wont dwindle for the next 10 years because they will primarily be based on your financial stability. As long as you have youth and looks you can carry on doing the 'singles lifestyle'. Smart men only settle down when they start losing their looks and cant do the singles scene any longer. So why marry so early?
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG
Yeah... especially the part on 2, 3 times a day.... and also the taste of saliva. That's something new to me. Now I know why Imran Hashmi is know as serial kisser and why he popular among adolescent girls.
If you kiss enough girl.. You will notice that everyone's saliva taste different... Same thing with pheromones... Some girls smell better than others.., natural odor...food, lifestyle, diet affect this as well. We are what we eat after all.
I can write about more enticing exploits and be more "detailed" about things... I'm not quite yet to the 50 shades of brown yet.
And yes, the 30 year old Dr. Was a beast... I think the only girl I've ever cane across that wanted sex more than me... And I will admit it... Sex is a drug... And those of you that are married or have access to it... Need to do it way more.
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG
I think you should treat the relationship with your cousin as a side project and not depend upon it too much. If it bears fruit. Great. If it doesn't atleast you were not completely invested in it.
Meanwhile, you are only 27 and lucky enough that you can have your sexual, physical intimacy and companionship needs met without getting married or too committed. Do realize that most guys start pestering their moms to get them married at your age because they want these needs met..not because they were longing for some girl of their dreams or some happily ever after or something. Marriage may disappoint you, keep that in mind.
Your marriage prospects with Pakistani girls wont dwindle for the next 10 years because they will primarily be based on your financial stability. As long as you have youth and looks you can carry on doing the 'singles lifestyle'. Smart men only settle down when they start losing their looks and cant do the singles scene any longer. So why marry so early?
I think you are spot on with this. Probably the best comment I have read... I guess it was certainly worth enduring all trolling :)
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG
I stopped reading halfway. Maybe you need to give it a few years, work on yourself, make some goals on how to improve yourself as a human being. Make yourself a happier, confident, healthy human being and learn how to value relationships in general. Maybe you can get a pet and start by training yourself on treating the pet in a humanitarian fashion. I'd start with a machlee (fish), betas are great, minimal upkeep. Then move up slowly to goldfish. Then a parakeet. Then maybe a cat or dog.
By then you should be in your mid 30's working on your career I hope. Maybe you can even return to the US and be a real true American instead of the hypocrite you initially accuse all Pakistani-American women of being (ironic). By then I hope the drugs, alcohol, and prostitutes and depressed fake female Mary-Jane smoking doctors will be a part of your past and you can join in with the rest of the Amerixan-Pakistani fake materialistic population you vilify by pretending all this never happened. By then you will probably marry a pretty 23 year old hijaban naik Larki and you'll have all your daughters wearing hijab and boys with beards because you'll have found God again and probably you'll be sitting on the board of trustees for masjids encouraging the maulvi to have sermons discouraging girls from going to college cause I guess that's the real reason your life was messed up in the first place, the darn doctor girls are just simply corrupt. They all smoke marijuana have sex with minors and flunk exams
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG
What is going on with public school education in US?
Must be something in the water.
Im a BBCD i guess and i am not fake or hiding behind any sort of façade. You can't actually move to a country and not expect to not pick up on the culture of that country. Also, if people have worked hard to make all that wealth then why not show it off?
Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG
There's no real point here...unless you're just venting.
The girl you like doesn't want you anymore.
You've got baggage you need to deal with.
I don't see why you'd even think of marriage right now...you'd be dragging someone else into what looks like big mess.
Right now, the way it looks...you should continue to live life as if you are single with no girlfriend or attachments.
I am certainly venting... I won't deny that... writing is therapeutic.
Yeah, I kind of picked up on that too... i've been in LD relationships in the past, and usually you tend to talk with one another for hours on end.. and what not... This is the exact opposite. If anything i've learned is...if you chase too hard...the other person just becomes disinterested in you... (If they were ever truly interested in the first place).
I do have baggage...and albeit I did have a job in the states, I wasn't in a happy place...And thats part of the reason why I don't want to go back...I fear I could easily relapse.
I've been doing the single thing since May of 2012... I have no problem being single... i just never anticipated I could have fallen for my cousin so hard. It just happened so quick.... I was holding back...and I felt like she was the one I could share myself with... and I guess the reality of it is... I was just wrong.
I just need to do me, stack some cash... someone mentioned just treat her like a side project...and just go with the flow.
