American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG

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Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan…OMG

@PyariCgudia

^ “If you marry a girl who is ready to forive your past, has a good character, loyalty, honesty, you will be a happy man”.

I’m just curious, how many people would let their daugthers/sisters/even cousins get married to a guy with a HUGE past?

And again, I ask, if the OP was a girl, hoow would you be posting differently? God, bIy now the girl would have been lynched off the forums.

I would have no problem marrying someone with a past, neither would i stop a sister or daughter from doing so. As long as the guy has not dont immoral acts that have hurt others such as murder or rape. If someone has had a sexual or drinking history, i would look to see if they have repented. If they truly have given up their old ways, i would marry them in a heart beat. If Allah swt has not closed his doors on the sinners, if he forgives the greatest sinners if they repent who are we to hold judgment? Do we know better than him? And the same rules apply to girls, if they have a past but repent than i would never think twice about their past. People who think otherwise need to stop being so judgmental and go out and explore the world, you’ll be amazed at what you see. The most wonderful pious kind muslims i know are people who have pasts just like this man or worse.