American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG

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Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan…OMG

@icicle1

I think ppl are being super harsh. he posted about his past habits, relationships and wild ways to give an idea of who he is and how he’s fallen for someone he never thought he would, right now. He didnt ask to be judged on how he is or who he was. He’s just expressing how he feels for this girl right now. So i think people should stick to giving him opinions on how he should deal with his raging hormone for this grl vs. whether its karma or not that the grl might be playing him.

we’re saying that it’s karma to help him deal with it. It’s better to be like… you know what, I screwed up in the past, now this is happening to me prob because of my mistakes… you can be a better person. It’s tough to get over a heartbreak and the best thing to do is sometimes accept that you’re not right for that person or vice versa.

And I put in my post that he is his own person. He can do what he wants. But he randomly posted about how he doesn’t think drinking and getting high is bad and the reasoning for it- those were a side track to his girl problems. That’s why those were addressed.