Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan…OMG
The issue of whether or not the girl is playing him is an important one (especially in giving advice) and something that he should consider. It’s important for him to determine whether the girl is playing him so that he can act accordingly. This cannot be one sided. It won’t do him any good if he is ready for marriage and sorts himself out and the girl is not. What is the purpose of him going with the flow or “wait and see where it goes” if the girl has no intention of marrying him? Surely, it’s better to know what her intentions are right away than to waste time with someone who may not want to marry him.