American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan...OMG

[multani86]

Re: American Pakistani, and I want to marry my 1st Cousin in Pakistan…OMG

@uzair1

I think you should treat the relationship with your cousin as a side project and not depend upon it too much. If it bears fruit. Great. If it doesn’t atleast you were not completely invested in it.

Meanwhile, you are only 27 and lucky enough that you can have your sexual, physical intimacy and companionship needs met without getting married or too committed. Do realize that most guys start pestering their moms to get them married at your age because they want these needs met..not because they were longing for some girl of their dreams or some happily ever after or something. Marriage may disappoint you, keep that in mind.

Your marriage prospects with Pakistani girls wont dwindle for the next 10 years because they will primarily be based on your financial stability. As long as you have youth and looks you can carry on doing the ‘singles lifestyle’. Smart men only settle down when they start losing their looks and cant do the singles scene any longer. So why marry so early?

I think you are spot on with this. Probably the best comment I have read… I guess it was certainly worth enduring all trolling