Re: American looking for some advice,
Relax bob. wedding shmedding whatever it is will bring your daughter half his assests. You brought her up as independent woman now don't be imposing your will on her. A 28 yr old woman doing her masters i bet she can make right choices for her.
p.s. It seems like you are being over protective coz of guy's age or maybe skin ???
She has made her own decisions concerning him without any interference from me, and not very good ones in my opinion. Its good that she'll soon have her masters degree but no college degree makes anyone less likely of making mistakes in life and love.
His age is an issue, he lied to her about his age by 10 years, she never would have started seeing him if she had known he was 50. I won't lie to you and tell you that I wouldn't prefer her to be with an American and someone that at least respects her religious beliefs. I've been told that his family has expressed that they'd rather he be with a Pakistani woman as well. That said, I think its only natural for both sides to feel that way, maybe I'm wrong but its how I feel.
He has no assets that I know of other than his Lexus vehicles and he already pays a hefty sum for child support to his ex-wife for his two daughters. The new home he's moved into is another rental, he's told my daughter that he wants to see how his job goes before buying a home. I'm expecting that they'll stay in the rental until he decides to pick up and move again.