American Guys vs. Pakistani Guys

[Lajwanti_Noor]

Re: American Guys vs. Pakistani Guys

i think thats because being a pakistani we knows the nature of paki men, & since there r many famous quotes like "Hansi to Phansi" & bachiyaan & these sort of stupid things, so whenever some paki boy do any favour for us like opening door etc, the girl thinks that ohh he is a typical paki boy, sure there mustbe something wrong going in his mind, so instead of appreciating him for his respect, we just stare him badly which has got a look that "don't try to impress me", while if an american boy will open the door for a girl, she will think ohh yes he's the american,the most superior one, & he has got totally clear mind, he isn't trying to flirt with us, he is just so sweet & polite that he considers so small small things, just ask urself how many times you had behaved nicely with americans & behaved badly & rudely with paki boys... & u will get the reason behind their attitude.
another thing is our country's Hot climate & diff circumstances that every person is sick of others & want to get rid of everyone.

[The_Voice]

Re: American Guys vs. Pakistani Guys

^^ respect

[soni27]

i think thats because being a pakistani we knows the nature of paki men, & since there r many famous quotes like "Hansi to Phansi" & bachiyaan & these sort of stupid things, so whenever some paki boy do any favour for us like opening door etc, the girl thinks that ohh he is a typical paki boy, sure there mustbe something wrong going in his mind, so instead of appreciating him for his respect, we just stare him badly which has got a look that "don't try to impress me", while if an american boy will open the door for a girl, she will think ohh yes he's the american,the most superior one, & he has got totally clear mind, he isn't trying to flirt with us, he is just so sweet & polite that he considers so small small things, just ask urself how many times you had behaved nicely with americans & behaved badly & rudely with paki boys... & u will get the reason behind their attitude. another thing is our country's Hot climate & diff circumstances that every person is sick of others & want to get rid of everyone.

heheeeeeeeehe...wow ..howd u come up with that 1? ..lolzzzzz..this reason is sssoooooooooooo hilariouss..i cant stop laughing..

by the way r u really a guy? bcs b4 i thought u were a female but after reading this.hmm..i dunnnoooon no more...!

[maverick123]

@Serafina_Pekkala

Since I have been accused of Pakistanati male bashing I thought why not do it all the way.
getting ready to get eggs and tomatoes thrown my way

I know that every race has good or bad guys but do you guys see a huge difference in general?
Do you guys think American guys are nicer and caring then Pakistani men? For example, they always open doors, most desi guys just walk right in. In an elevator white guys always wait until all the ladies are out, desi guys just walk right out. American guys stand up for you against their families where as most desi guys don’t?

Anyways feel free to write qualities of pakistani men, I just can’t think of any

well, that has nothing to do with whether they are desi or american. It all depends on the level of one’s education and manners. I have seen many educated well mannered desi guys that do the same things ex: holding the door for the lady waiting for the lady to get out of the elevator first and so. And I’ve seen many Illiterate american guys with no manners and completely ignoring if there’s a lady behind them and maybe they should hold the door or let the lady in first.

[_Iraj]

@maverick123

well, that has nothing to do with whether they are desi or american. It all depends on the level of one’s education and manners. I have seen many educated well mannered desi guys that do the same things ex: holding the door for the lady waiting for the lady to get out of the elevator first and so. And I’ve seen many Illiterate american guys with no manners and completely ignoring if there’s a lady behind them and maybe they should hold the door or let the lady in first.

and there’s another difference called the cultural difference ..
American guys maybe straightforward

But pakistanis guys can never be straightforward

American guys can never be as responsible as a pakistani guy is especially in connection with ladies

and the list goes on…

now the gurls get attracted to different habits .

some like doors being opened
some like being smiled at ..

this creates a great confusion due to cultural and personal backgrounds

[soni27]

well, that has nothing to do with whether they are desi or american. It all depends on the level of one's education and manners. I have seen many educated well mannered desi guys that do the same things ex: holding the door for the lady waiting for the lady to get out of the elevator first and so. And I've seen many Illiterate american guys with no manners and completely ignoring if there's a lady behind them and maybe they should hold the door or let the lady in first.

sometiems mannerisms have not much to do with education..i think it comes from what we learn at home plus our personality. so mayb serafina encountered the ype of desi guyz who at home r taught that woman are nothing then couple that with an arrogant personality ..and there u have it.. mr.rudeness

[Shikra]

@pinks

kya aap ne survey kar ke rakha hai?

Survey tou nahi kiya, lekin mein life forum ki threads parhta rahta hoon

[Serafina_Pekkala]

Re: American Guys vs. Pakistani Guys

There is no such thing as a perfect man :p

[deedawar]

@Shikra

Survey tou nahi kiya, lekin mein life forum ki threads parhta rahta hoon

What a coincidence! I just posted this picture in joke forum.

So here is my opinion on this topic…and many have said before also.

There is no such thing as difference in men from anywhere as far as treatment of women goes between anglosexon male or common Pakistani men.

The reason I said Anglo-sexon is because american men have different background themselves including men from Pakistan.

Thread starter may need to clarify if thats what she meant.

Educationl and cultural background of both plays part in action and its reaction.

Many Pakistani are well behaved and many anglosexons are not!

What thread starte might have said seems very biased and is very difficult to be accepted by majority people..men or even women.

Now, specifically she could not find anything good in Pakistani men…I feel sorry for her… Like someone suggested she might be looking for a good man in all the wrong places.

Above picture simply means: There is no such thing as perfect man.

But there is no such thing as perfect woman/girl either.

Perfectness lies in the mind of the observer (I just made it up)
Just like Beauty is in the eyes of beholder.

Recently I met an anglosexon female who was single despite being 41…

She stated she could not find a good man to mary…I said to her…
Why don’t you say you did not want to mary instead of blaming on men you met?
I got no answer from her but a simple smile.

It depends what we like to see in other person and if we start looking for essential stuff…rest you can either ignore or change in that person.

Pakistani men do have great qualities but things are changing by the time.

Equality in every respect demanded by ‘liberal’ women has to bring some untoward effects along with many eye-opening revelations for men.

We also have to see many Pakistani men not really ‘experienced’ in boy-girl relation such as dating since childhood as opposed to men brought up in open societies where every move from them is being watched and scrutinized from very begining.

I the end…just relax! Give Pakistani men another chance!!

P.S. Freaks are freaks and are quite obvious to sensitive women/girls…but at least don’t stare with angry look at Pakistani men.
A lot of them are great future husbandS.

[Lusi]

Re: American Guys vs. Pakistani Guys

Give Pakistani men a chance

Sun laye Khuda

Pakistani men kee sada :D

[deedawar]

Give Pakistani men a chance

Sun laye Khuda

Pakistani men kee sada :D

Ab To Khuda hi Aqal Deyga In larkyon ko!!!:D.........!!!