Re: am i wrong ...
oh god! what is ur status w. him right now? nikkah? engaged only? nothing? what? im confused....if this were me....i would get the hell outta this relationship as fast as i could..hes not the only man on earth...u can do better...ur getting cheated out of all the things uve been waiting ur whole life for....and cant ever do over.....
it does appear (only from this short post..i could be wrong?) that they dont want to spend a DIME on u...and never will in their whole lives on certain occasions cuz if they are not spending it here they never will...and yeah they are so concerned about him comin to germany....sounds suspicious...i had a story like this about a freind...he ended up coming here and then ran off w. someone else...just wanted to get into the country.....
plus its not even a love marriage...id look a little further for someone realiable while u still have teh chance....they are being too controlling and not letting u have ANY OF ur way on anything to do w. this wedding...it doenst even sound like its ur wedding....................