Am I taking a really extreme step?

[hareem01]

@Pareezay

Best advice.

Wow, as expected, the man must always be the cause of the problem, and the woman is always the angel. If she ever acts inappropriately, let’s put allllll the blame on the man

She’s not a 10 year old, you do not need to probe and search and babysit her when she’s throwing tantrums. As Sara also mentioned earlier, what an immature and irresponsible way to show she’s angry. What if you do the same and stop providing her financially? Even if her anger IS justified in some way, is this really how a wife and a mother of two children should act? I cannot believe people here are finding no issues with how she’s behaving.
The mature way would be to communicate and resolve problems, not give up on housework and act like a child. As a husband, you deserve respect and there are certain adaabs to follow in one’s marriage. Seems like you’re fed up of all this, anyone would be, especially after doing so much for their family.

So what do you suggest? Should he divorce her?

Jaadugar
I leave cooking and cleaning when I’m fed up and do you know my husband never gets frustrated. He’d clean, cook and feed me and kids.
Can you do that with your family? I’m sure you can. And when you do that your wife will be back to normal within a day. Believe me.