Yeah for each day she decided NOT to cook for you, think about all the days she has cooked for you and "served you" (your words, not mine, and frankly POOR CHOICE of words for someone who thinks he's more educated than a woman who mispells "color").
In fact, here's a concrete suggestion. Set aside your anger and tomorrow night, YOU cook something for her and the kids. Be nice, be kind, don't bring up the subject of the argument and just try to have a nice dinner with your family.
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