Am I taking a really extreme step?

Jaadugar might retaliate in a tit-for-tat manner but what good would it do to their marriage with the attitude that the wife has? You know how some not-so-samajhdaar women have the ability to frustrate the living day lights out of their husbands through their actions? When they don't want to understand something, they just wont ... no matter what you do. Such situations end up destroying homes.