Try to be nicer to your wife. Otherwise, desi community considers you to be a jerk. Works fine in Japanese society, but generally not among desis.
I am probably the nicest and most sociable person I know.
Portraying yourself as some angel (not saying god) it seems like. Wonder why do other Pakistanis not socialize with you. Only they can tell...
So what happened to the THE NICEST and MOST SOCIABLE person? Could not take a simple critique? You should watch what you write to others as well. And this proves how sociable and nice you are... No wonder why they keep distance from you :) Take it easy PCG.