thank u we did have a chat, as somebody below suggested that some attitudes are not correct for a marriage which i dont think applies to this, my reason for the thread was to ask if im right to be annoyed at his comment, and i think any human would be feel annoyed which is what i felt, with regards to when to have it, we’ve discussed that wel leave it to the elders, and let them decide, they know our wishes, and he has promised that he will save properly so inshallah so yeh
we did have a chat, as somebody below suggested that some attitudes are not correct for a marriage which i dont think applies to this, my reason for the thread was to ask if im right to be annoyed at his comment, and i think any human would be feel annoyed which is what i felt, with regards to when to have it, we’ve discussed that wel leave it to the elders, and let them decide, they know our wishes, and he has promised that he will save properly so inshallah so yeh