Actually i know i am 
hes got his own house pays the mortgage and the bills, so im not fussed as il be in control of the finances once we marry inshallah as my wage will be for me and household stuff and hel do the rest. the argument with regards to money stemmed from the fct that at the moment he should be saving for the wedding, hes majority of the time after bills left with around 800-1K but hes a gadget freak and always got expensive blu ray discs on pre-order or clothes etc he just has to tighten his reigns for maximum 5 months and hel have more then enough to do the small valima his family want, its that time of the year xmas and temptation everywhere. He has saved but makes it harder for himself its just a few months..