Yeh exactly i was so annoyed we had a discussion and hes acknowledged what hes said is wrong and its never crossed his mind that he would never marry me, he meant if we dnt have it in october hel be stubborn and make sure it is.. we both know ultimatley the elders will decide which month, i think its that time of the year works busy for both of us and he just came out with it as usually we never have any problems cept minor disagreements here n there as with every relationship.