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there is no reason for a group of guys to discuss such vulgar things continuously for a half and hour...yes all men think about sex and its natural to a certain extent....but the urge is not so bad that they cant stop thinking about it and not have some tameez.... there is nothing cool about a group of horny toad men that have nothing better to discuss for a such a long time....gosh get over it and move on to the next topic.....pigs
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He's a guy surrounded by other guys. I don't think it's abnormal for him to comment on a girl, say that she is pretty, ugly, etc. Married girls surrounded by other female friends will also talk about guys and say that they're cute, their jawbone is nice, etc. But if he's saying something really horny/sexual, then I would find that a bit inappropriate because he's married and shouldn't be seeing other girls in that manner. If he did something like that... then maybe he's still mentally a bachelor since you do not live with him.
Biyya, I live in Australia - which State is he in, Melbourne, Sydney . . ?
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Someone shoot me already. Yes you are over reacting. Yes it is not a big deal. Yes your husband is a man. Why do women consider generally that their husbands are all angels? Whats with all the unrealistic expectations?
He is a guy. He hangs out with guys. Guys are generally vulgar and rude amongst their friends. Its a guy thing.
No you won't understand. No you shouldn't even try. No don't bother changing him. Its not gonna work.
Just accept that when he is with his guys he is infact a guy. As long as he shows you respect and does not act in the same manner with you - you are set.
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^ Exactamundo.
Don’t assume that he will all of a sudden morph into an angel because he got married to you. Not all, but most of the guys are rude amongst their team. Normally things change with age and maturity, and responsibility. It will change over time, and it is definitely nothing to sulk over.
Another interesting thing is, if your man had listened to you over the phone like that, he still would have been the unethical pig. Thats how we roll here :k:
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I think its cheap. The decent guys do not involve theirselves in such talks.
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agree with fairytale
I think its cheap. The decent guys do not involve theirselves in such talks.
how do you know? I mean how do you know that they dont do it in a guy's only setup?
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99% guys discuss women with their friends and remaining 1% are liar 
So don’t worry and calm down
Biyya, I don't know if you're over reacting, but not all guys talk like that. I shoot my mouth off a lot here on GS, but at the end of the day, when other guys around me talk about how hot a girl is while going into great details, I feel embarrassed.
That is nice of you.
They have their male hormones alright, but they shouldn't take a stroll like that. There is a decent way of expressing everything. What is immoral stays immoral, even if 99% men do that.
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^true…specially about the 1% 
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:aliyish: Aali for being honest
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Hmmm I think you should just ignore !
At least whatever he was discussing was with his friends and he didn't know that you were listening. What I mean to say he didn't say all those things in front of you to hurt you or make you feel jealous. Believe me there are husbands out there who would not think once before discussing other women or flirting with other women in front of their wives. What he did was nothing , my advise to you is don't create an issue out of this . Forgive & Forget !
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hmmm.... i m perfectly ok if a guy finds angelina jolie sexy... but there is a line between vulgarity n praising some one ..... i dont think all guys r vulgar n they see through clothes of covered decent women... wat i heard was not normal... i dont wanna go to details ...i was angry so i posted it here .....n when I'll feel that my Bp is normal then I'll talk to him... thanx for the response ....
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Its guys being guys. Shoe me someone who says they don't do it and I will show you a liar. Every guy does it. Even the gay ones and they are worse. Catty worse.
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Pakistani Drama ???
Discussing their bodies ?? 
hmmmm. Discussing bodies of actresses in Pakistani drama , Ye baat hazam nahi ho rahi
We Guys discuss about hot bodies of
We do talk in dirty way about sports teams. You hear us and you will leave the room and try to find your girly friends and discuss fashion and cloths etc.
Just like all guys said you need to know guys natural interest.
Its very simple. I have stated these interests gazzilion times.
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/339202-jee-karda-bhai-jee-karda.html
For me favourite hobbies are
-Watching movies
-Watching hot chicks
-Watching Discovery, mega structures , Assembly line manufacturing of favorite cars, Helicoptors , Planes
-Hangin out with guys and talking about above mentioned interests
how do you know? I mean how do you know that they dont do it in a guy's only setup?
I know coz i have seen those decent guys. I know their limits. A modest shy decent person remains modest shy decent in every kind of gathering. they know their limits. the limits are only crossed when they are with their initmate partner. that too in a good and decent manner and not by doing cheap harkatain or cracking wahayat jokes.
This :k:
TLK note above.
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^ The line can not be clear and articulate all the time. Anybody can term any praise vulgar and indecent and at the same time other person can describe it as a power plug of craftsmanship.
Angelina Jolie’ lips and soo sexy, my heart breakes all speed limits when i see her eating pizza with melted cheese… which spreads around her lower lips and her tongue gather all in one sweep. In my dream, I would be in cloud nine if i accidently cut my finger and she move close to me and offers me ‘First aid’ 
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Uh..oh throws a glass full of water on the red