I am inclined to agree with distinctiveflair here. I’ve been in the company of non-Pakistani guys (as a friends’ gathering) and there are definitely guys out there who don’t like talking so disrespectfully about a woman.
It’s one thing if you tell your buddy a girl you think is hot, its another if you get into gritty details of how you’d do her with another friend or gritty details of how you HAVE done her.
That just shows you don’t have class.
I think Pakistani guys, often, are not taught at home that this is the wrong way to speak about women. I know at masjids I’ve been to and Islamic classes I’ve been to, this kind of talk has been outright labelled as haraam, and I’d like to believe there are some good muslims out there who adhere to keeping their dirty thoughts to themselves.
Your sexual fantasies and thoughts should be shared with your partner. Not with your 20 friends at some barbeque.
