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not everything a wife disapproves of is porn.
wife doesn't like a picture with cleavage= porn?
umm nice logic.
Before jumping to what I meant, just answer yes or no. Will most wives approve that or not?
I think if I correctly read your post you think most will not approve.
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wife doesn’t like husband taking his shoes off in the room= porn
and i will not give u the answer u want:snooty:
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Busted!
My point must be right then. 
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^no? what was your point?
i think i just called you out on a fallacy. come outta lala land.
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OK I said my point was right and did not tell you what exactly was my point for a reason that you already conceded to the discussion by sensing your loss. So all my points are correct. Ever played cards? 
Here it is.
The cleavage showing picture IS porn.
Porn has levels. Soft to hard.
Cleavage is not face/hand/feet. Not talking about fetish here. Cleavage is part of porn and intimate part of woman’s body.
It creates more universal reaction in men (heterosexual-hence I referred to Mona Lisa as sarcasm) …than just face or feet.
Now someone said it was porn and someone said it was not.
I proved it was porn. Not just because wife would not approve, but because it IS porn.
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to someone like me who goes into wild twitchy 30 min orgasms every time i encounter idiocy in the written format, diwana's posts are pr0n. what would my wife say :(
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oh man, i do not have the patience for essay format replies on here.
To all people who like attention and write out essays to feel better about themselves: here's your soney ka tamgha, now stop writing essays. [at least for the sake of queers sanity]
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Making list of my posts fetish. 
P.S. You should not read my posts as married man. :no:
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I know a couple that broke up because the wife caught her husband's porn fetish. By the time she became aware, he was too deep into it and had a hard time turning back. A small once in a while activity led to a downfall so bad that he lost his wife and children. Eventually depression and pyschological conditions cost him his job and career as well. Now he's a torn fella. No home. No life.
So my personal take on such things is that be mature about stuff that can lead to serious problems. Yes, it can happen to anyone so best avoid it in the first place.
Funny I know this girl who got divorced and among many other accusations, her in-laws said they found pornography videos in the trunk of her car (of course there were other reasons behind the divorce such as her husband giving her money to pay off her debt and instead she got breast implants with the money... but that's besides the point). I still think the in-laws making her porn addiction public was pretty messed up, she was most likely trying all those moves on her husband and keeping him happy anyway.
So yeah.
awkward silence
man, how I hate telling stories without making an actual point.
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Porn is bad though... not to mention Islamically wrong.
I wouldn't divorce my husband but will make a big enough deal out of it to make sure he never ventures off that way again.
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. I still think the in-laws making her porn addiction public was pretty messed up, she was most likely trying all those moves on her husband and keeping him happy anyway.
So a woman watching porn is only doing it for the sake of her husband/marriage........a man watching porn is cheating?? I like the way you think...:D
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Porn is bad though...
You sound like Mr. Mackey...mmmkay?
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You haven’t come out of the closet? 
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I would have serious issues if my spouse or any male that I knew made a habit out of watching porn, simply because of the consequences it has on how they view women, sex, and the fact that it's a direct support of an industry that exploits women.
The pornography industry is legalized prostitution. You can play with semantics all you want, but that is what it is. The term pornography is derived from the Greek "porne (or pornea)," which mean prostitute. Graphy is from the Greek "graphein," which means to depict. Together, you get the depiction of prostitution.
When we look at the vast amounts of information we have which pertain specifically to the background of women who enter into the commercial sex industry, we see a staggering majority have either experienced childhood, and/or adulthood sexual abuse/and or rape.
Putting this into context, it's pretty alarming to consider that the majority of sex workers (in porn, and not in porn), were victims of sexual abuse before they entered the industry. This tells us quite a bit about the mentality required to be part of this industry, and how engaging in these acts continues a cycle of perpetual victimization where these women see their personal value as reflected heavily in how many men want to screw them. And because so many are unable to reject these advances, they become wrapped up in this culture of exploitation where they are told that they are "empowering," themselves, when they are being disempowered by allowing their bodies to be used, and abused.
Then we have the issue that arises when men see these often degrading acts of intercourse: gender imbalanced (gang bangs), abusive (hardcore), where men begin to view these interactions as normal sexual experiences, and the women as "normal," portrayals of feminine beauty. Because of this, we have women seeking out all sorts of elective surgical procedures such as labia reductions and breast implants because it is the belief that men will not find them attractive if they do not reflect those surgically enhanced bodies found in pornography.
Then we have numerous studies in which men are increasingly unable to sympathize with real life rape victims over the course of continual exposure to pornography, because much of the content is enacted as being heavily dominated by the male, and the woman as a passive object to be used by him. Becuase of this, even our very notion of what coercion and rape is, is diminished because we are exposed to so much content that tells us that domination and even force= good and natural.
However, on a personal note, though I'm not a fan of depictions of sexual encounters between people on a religious basis, I would have much less issue with men viewing erotica, which is gender balanced and produced on the basis of mutual, sensual, and compassionate pleasure between two equal adults. If my spouse wanted to watch that, I wouldn't stop them, but I'd be with them when they did, if only to make the viewing more uncomfortable for them, or to distract their attention away with my presence ;)
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I would have much less issue with men viewing erotica, which is gender balanced and produced on the basis of mutual, sensual, and compassionate pleasure between two equal adults.
and where does one find such earth-friendly hippy porn? :\
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and where does one find such earth-friendly hippy porn? :\
National Geographic documentaries of South American tribes
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Word.
And the pornstars, they’re in it for the vast amounts of money they get paid. They’re females who grew up in the West, complete with all the benefits of a welfare society and the opportunities. Stop trying to make excuses for them :/. Why does exploitation only apply to the women in this industry, and not the men? pffft 
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i really doubt most people here are worried from the omgz he doesnt respect women, angle.. its more a case of OMGZ how do i match up to the pr0nstar he's been watching?! does he like her? does he love her? is he disappointed with me? maybe i should actually be trying something instead of.. well anyway..you get the idea..
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Good catch.
All of a sudden the posts containing “son being dropped off to school” and then “what the ‘wife’ would say” …
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